I found the solution for me was when I stopped fighting change; it opened up a new door to freedom for me. I was tired of waking up feeling the same way day after day. I prayed to ask God to take away the desire to act out violently. To change completely, I had to look at what had me in bondage. My beliefs played a major role in the behavior I exhibited. So I started looking inward. I wrote down what my beliefs were. I got really honest with myself. If the beliefs played a destructive part in my life, I questioned them. I ask myself where did this come from. As I research, I found that many things I adopted as my own beliefs were instilled in me from childhood. I realize these beliefs would no longer work in adult relationships. I am simply saying, I had to grow up. What I thought worked for me as a child did not work any longer as an adult. You see, a change had presented itself long before I saw it. That is why my life was completely out of control. I was acting out with childish desire. I question everything I learned. What I could use I kept, and what I could not use, I learned to let go. With a little work and praying, freedom was now in my view. It did not happen right away. It’s a process that will take place as long as I am living. The work never stops. Learning myself all over has become a full-time job. To have success in this area of my life, I had to change everything about my destructive thinking. It all starts with a thought. My thoughts become things. What do these things look like? My thoughts show up in aggression, self-hate, resentment, suicidal thoughts, murder and revenge, loud talking, and verbal aggression.

Kenneth Crawford

is a Licensed Clinical Counselor and a Minister.

Kenneth Crawford

is a Life Coach and Music lover.

Kenneth Crawford

can help you break free from the grips of anger.

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